Psychological interview with Guangzhou Daily Edition psychologists Tong Mei Mei

 Psychological interview with Guangzhou Daily Edition psychologists Tong Mei Mei
Ocean News Time: 2010-06-19 Source: Guangzhou Daily Author: Wu Jun Miriam
News Review March 7, ZH prospective flight attendants in a hotel near the airport Dandan hanged himself. Dandan left in the phone with the death of a large number of SMS and send text messages to her are Beijing, a senior executive Wei-Zhong Chen Shenzhen Airlines Hotel. the original, 22-year-old Dandan and the 40-year-old married man, had a feeling the man was committed to working with first wife divorce with her, but finally ended in suicide pacts, but the dead only Dandan. Dandan's family that, Daniel suffered a br> Text / reporter Miriam Ng Chun Yi Hao
female psychologist, director of psychological research Tong Mei Mei
Dan Dan inner desire to love and tolerance from their parents, but because of the absence of parents can not be met. Psychology found that childhood parental divorce and custody by the grandparents, grandparents, would be traumatic heart. If has not been repaired, trauma to has been accompanied by their emotional lives. Dandan love of a child lost their parents, had the opposite sex in the searching. In her first foot on the community to meet such a concern for care of her middle-aged male supervisor, to help her analyze and solve problem, let her realize that right and wrong, listen carefully and not criticize, and eventually developed into a warm her confession: who can not get, finally tilt the balance of emotions, and the hearts of the father's desire to not hesitate to cast him in this man that this is true love. Dandan to Wei-Zhong Chen as a built on sand emotions, can not withstand the tide and wind and rain, and finally completely collapsed.
physiological and psychological characteristics of men is difficult to determine without any attempt to become the women dependent care Ruonv because it makes them feel powerful, or even to avoid sex as a means of competitive pressure. as they are fills the vacancy, if the .
true story: When the get rich and relaxed, but in her heart often feel empty. husband is a workaholic, the weekend with the family rarely went out to play, not many of her concerns.
day, she accidentally burned in the office of the hand , Z colleagues recruited burn ointment to her coat, the moment made her realize the long-lost love back. Z body is not tall, not handsome appearance, and has a 15-year-old daughter, but he who exudes middle-aged mature and understanding man's charm. Z H always listened patiently to tell, so she left her husband and his initiation of the idea of marrying.
if women and the more than a month, you need to solve their own spiritual growth of the problem. a well-trained and abide by professional ethics of professional psychological consultants to have be respected, so that they will re-establish security in his own body.
in the consultation process, H recall her childhood, when she was sick, a fever or a cold fall, standing on the side of the father is not to blame indifference, and sometimes simply leave her to go. she finally realized that his heart longed for a father. consultants point out that the wounds of her childhood incident triggered the current crisis in marriage, but, and Yan friends recipients of care, because their heart is no longer a childhood injury that girl, but have grown up woman, as a wife have to give love. She learned husband, the emotional enhance communication between husband and wife, rather than complain and blame. heart to grow, her marriage against the